Sainthood.  Is that not what you joke about when someone acts in a way that approaches perfection, that includes sacrifices, and is so far above the norm of human behavior that it begs recognition?  Do you know such a person?  All of you contain the potential for such behavior, but do not press yourselves or stress yourselves to achieve such distinction.  You are doing fine just the way you are.  Nothing is expected of you.  You are here to try on different clothes, to experience different roles until you find just the right fit.  Should you stumble along the way and find some of your choices result in ill-fitting outcomes, try again.  If you do not achieve sainthood in this lifetime, all is well.  Shine your light.  That is why you are here.  If your light feels a bit dim, choose differently.  It is that simple.