Cats.  You call them aloof, for they at times will ignore you.  Could it be that cats are great teachers that you are not here only to receive love but to give it in abundance?  Yes, of course, many of your feline companions are overtly affectionate, but observe what happens as you realize what a difference it makes to give as well as receive.  Now do the same with your human companions and perhaps those around you will not be so aloof as well.  You are so very loved.

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