mystery-864714_640“Who won?” you ask after a debate.  Who did the better job?  And then you judge.  You do so by comparing many attributes:  language, restraint, demeanor, appearance, wisdom, and all of these add up to one opinion.  But do you know that you could skip all of those details and go straight to the heart and gut?  There you already know at a deeper level who has “won” in any situation.  Perhaps there is no winner at all.  And then what do you do?  You realize that no other in the human world can rule your heart.  Human leaders will come and go in your life, telling you this and that.  Ultimately, if you let your heart rule your decisions, you will find peace.  It is already within you.